11.47 The challenges of coaching in a thinking environment

In 'The Promise', Nancy Kline sets out very clearly and concisely the specific behaviours that differentiate coaches that coach without interruption, and speak on invitation, from those that direct conversations, over-help, that distract and disrupt those with whom they work.

Here, based on many direct quotes from the section of the book devoted to coaching, I offer my own thoughts and interpretations.

These are radical, tough changes to the practice of many, and will be dismissed by those who feel coaching is about giving insight and advice, not space and respect.

I have started using these ideas in my own practice, and I feel in the right context it is well worth the considerable effort in terms of value to the client.